It won’t be easy—he’s had things his own way for far too long! The chauvinism, the possessiveness, the affairs—enough is enough! You need to assert your power immediately. Arrange for a ‘vacation,’ then employ many of the various control drugs on the black market. When he awakens, he will realize at once that things have changed. His future is irrevocably in your hands now—a future in dresses.
Tip: Explain why you have transformed him once, then no more. He’ll look back on that discussion as the years go by with regret and ponder it in his more reflective moments with proper sadness.